May be a family sakinah mawaddah warohmah

Thursday, 2 July 2009 07:18 Last Updated on Thursday, 2nd July 2009 07:26 Written by Sofian Thursday, 2nd July 2009 07:18

Often we hear sayings such as the title above. Especially at the present time, the holiday season, where many people who perfected his half-deen. wedding invitations are also now able to spread via email or web. Actually what is the meaning of family sakinah rohmah mawaddah this wa.

Allah Almighty has said in verse:
"And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives from jenismu own, and so you tend to feel calm him, and maketh among you a sense of love and affection. Verily in this is truly there are signs for people who think. "(Surat ar-Rum [30]: 21).

In the paragraph that contained the words sakinah mawaddah warohmah, which will be explained sbagai the following:

Sakinah
Origin of the word litaskunu => Sakana => Sakinah => Relax = >> wife into a shelter. Thus, a wife must always keep his appearance in front of her husband, both physical and his spiritual.

Litaskunu meaning according to Ibn kastir:

a. Lita 'Tafu: Mutually binding liver (Surat al-Anfal: 63). => Liver binding factor is faith, not wealth, position, let alone look.

b. Tamilu 'Ilaiha: You gravitate to him. => Lean thoughts, feelings, replied tangggung. Here will know that the duties of a wife are faithful to their husbands. So, cook, wash, and so it is not an obligation, but rather act in obedience to her husband.

c. Tadma'inubiha: You feel at peace with it.

Mawaddah
Mawaddah in the household is defined by love. According to Hasan al-Basri, mawaddah the metamorphosis of the marital relationship. If the household is a machine, it is dinamonya mawaddah.

Among the features Mawaddah are:
a. Often give each other gifts.
b. Kasratu Dzikrihi: always remember his kindness.
c. Kasratu Ittishali Ma'ahu: Always communicate and open with each other.

Rohmah
Rohmah => Yarhamu => Compassion. This is the end result of sakinah and mawaddah

Well, for a newly married couple, congratulations, may the blessing of Allah to you all, and our family became a family sakinah mawaddah warohmah.

4 Comments

1. Irul Ahmad | Friday, 19 March 2010 at 10:54 am

   Thanks for the explanation ... y mba
   We'll be praying for kluarga skinah mawaddah warahmah like Kanjeng prophet Muhammad SAW ..
   aamiiiinnnnnnn

   
2. f14n | Tuesday, 23 March 2010 at 3:27 am

   Barokalloh Irul yes. May be a family sakinah mawaddah warohmah ...
   I'm not an MBA but mas

   
3. must roedi | Sunday, 27 June 2010 at 6:12 am

   Hahay ...

   
4. inunk | Wednesday, 14 July 2010 at 5:43 am

   wah .. it means a new tau .. tau is often said but not done that is ..

   salam ..